Dealing With ‘No’
💬 A “No” Isn’t a Door Closing — It’s the Data You Need
Hi friend 💛✨
Hearing “no” can sting.
I get it.
You put your heart, your brain, and your time into a proposal.
Of course you want that yes.
Here is the mindset shift that changes everything 👇
✨ A no is feedback, not failure. ✨
Every denial tells you something valuable if you are willing to listen:
📌 what to refine
📌 what to clarify
📌 what to strengthen
📌 what funders are prioritizing right now
Sometimes it is timing.
Sometimes it is alignment.
Sometimes the funder simply had fewer dollars to award.
None of those erase the impact you are making 💛
A no does not mean your work is not worthy.
It means there is information you can use to move forward more strategically.
Use it as data.
Use it as fuel.
Use it to prepare for your next stronger, clearer, more confident yes 🌱
And remember this:
Even the most successful grant writers hear “no” far more often than “yes.”
The difference is simple.
They keep going ✨
🎯 Want Support Turning No Into Strategy?
If you want to learn grant writing the right way, with systems, strategy, and real support, I want you to know this:
I am a Lead Co-Coach inside Holly Rustick’s Grant Writing and Funding Academy, where I actively support nonprofits as they:
🌿 interpret funder feedback
🌿 strengthen grant narratives over time
🌿 build resilience and confidence in their funding work
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If you are responsible for funding decisions at a nonprofit and already know you want consistent, thoughtful grant submissions without carrying the emotional weight alone, the Growth Package may be the better fit.
This is a high-touch, done-for-you partnership that includes:
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📌 Strategic planning and positioning
📌 A customized grant calendar
📌 Ongoing calls and quarterly reviews
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Cheering you on always 💚
Win With Gwen ✨
Gwen Valentino
NM Grant Writers
P.S. A no does not close the door. It shows you where to knock next 🌱